SPREAD LOVE

For the last few days,I have been very perturbed, because of the totally unwarranted violence against Indian students, in Australia.It is horrific,and shocking,and the very thought of such mindless attacks,creates extreme anxiety,a sense of defeat,and worry, at what the future holds, for those, who have so much hate inside.Why are people today so intolerant,disrespectful,critical,and unkind to someone, because of his country,language,colour,looks,or simply because someone is different?And those perpetrating these hate crimes, are very young persons, who should have been full of fun,joy,and everything that youngsters are known for,instead of carrying hate bombs in their hearts.Truly a very scary situation,and no one knows how things will turn out,or will there be an end to such inhuman attacks, on innocent fellow humans. If only we could learn to respect,accept,be tolerant,try to understand another person and adjust,the world would be so much nicer for everyone.We are all citizens of this world,and should move hand in hand as one.Why fracture it with personal prejudices,and pre-conceived notions,which almost always are an outcome of ignorance,an dalso low self esteem.

THE BEAUTY OF SUNDAY!

Ever since I can remember,Sundays were always known as fun days,because it was a holiday from everything that goes on over the week.Getting up late,going over the huge pile of newspapers,not bothering about anything,just relaxing, and enjoying it.It was a day for outings,movies,or just pure enjoyment.Everyone was doing his/her own thing,but in a very relaxed,and lazy way.This was a way to energize one's self, for the week ahead.
But nowadays,life is so hectic,that enjoyment is out,and "doing" things is in.Children have to be taken for innumerable classes,and parents start running around for that.Both parents also have their own goals to follow,so the running around continues.But in life,learning to stop, is also a very important lesson,which most people do not know about,or give importance to,and thats what creates all the problems, that we see in most families.Learning to unwind,enjoying life,and getting to know and enjoy each other, is extremely important,and worth every effort.So go for it,and add a new dimension to life, and your mind.It will be worth it, for mental,and physical enhancement.Take care all.

WHY?WHY?

This morning,my son took me for a walk, to the exquisite Botanical Gardens of Singapore,which is the most heavenly place I have visited.And although I have gone there several times, every visit is a new,and beautiful experience.The government has done a stupendous job ,of preparing a place ,for the public to enjoy,and indeed,it is a great attraction for those ,who are health conscious,to enjoy their walking,jogging,exercise,or for tourists,and those who just love looking around.I fall into all these categories,so I was thrilled.But I was shocked to see a gentleman ,park his car, on the lucious green grass, just outside the gate,so that he could escape the parking charge!Why may I ask?Should we be so disrespectful,and unconcerned, about the facilities offered to us?And why break rules?Why be so careless about the lovely velvety grass,which has taken hours of labour to look as pretty as it does?So,although I enjoyed my visit,these questions continue to bother me,and we need to be more thoughtful,concerned,and respectful, about our surroundings,and those around,if we want beauty,and happiness as our gifts.Thats the thought for today!Have a smiley day.

NOTES FROM SINGAPORE

Thanks to my sons, I have been coming here, for many years now,and greatly enjoy the experience.I love going for walks every morning,which is also a time to discover innumerable aspects of life here.The most important one being the cleanliness,which is truly exemplary.It is so neat,and tidy, that there isn't a leaf out of place,so to speak.And on these walks,I make many friends,though Singaporeans are not too out going.But I smile at them the first few days,and then there is some reaction,which we enjoy.My belief and experience is that, one smile, creates another,and people warm up to each other.And it is from these friends ,that I get to know ,where to find good fish,where to go for garden fresh vegetables,and what are the things I can enjoy during my stay.I travel extensively,regularly,and when I visit someone,I do not expect them to stop their life,and start attending to me.Instead,I find things to do,and enjoy doing them.If we respect each other,and understand the need to give space to every relationship,we can all live in peace,and harmony.So lets all resolve to work for that,and create an atmosphere of peace,love,and smiles. Start now.Bye,have a very smiley day.

EACH DAY IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY

Hello world,its a fresh new day,and I get up every morning, with a smile,and a prayer of thanks to God, for giving me another chance, to do something useful for someone,somewhere,somehow,and then,with myself.There is so much to do,the choices are endless,but most people waste precious time in doing things that do not contribute positivity,and create a sense of emptiness inside.I am right now in Singapore,enjoying my time with my darling fairy princess,my grand daughter,and every moment with her is sheer joy.Children are so innocent,truthful,and unaffected,that being with them is an experience in pure enjoyment.Smiles come easily,and so do the hugs,and messy kisses,and the heart soars like a free bird.She guides me in everything,corrects my computer glitches,and teaches me the proper way of using the numerous gadgets ,that are a way of life for any young family.Since I live on my own in Pune,India,and am an elderly person,my home is very uncomplicated,and user friendly,perhaps like the person who lives in it!But thats how one should live life,in simplicity,honesty,and positivity,and that is the sure way to inner peace,and fulfilment.Bye,and love to all.

WELCOME ABOARD!

Hello everybody,welcome to my blog.As I have already mentioned in my profile,my 70th.b'day is just around the corner,and I am eagerly,and excitedly, looking forward to celebrating,all 12 months.This is my way of thanking God, for looking after me, and giving me many precious gifts, which embellish my life,and make me the person I am,and the way I live."The living of life, is an education in itself,"and its the joy of living, that consumes me,every moment of every day.There are many people I have to thank,at this very special moment of my life,because all of them have played a very vital role, in every step I have taken,to reach here.My wonderful parents,who pointed me in the right direction,and taught me the values,ethics,and principles,to live with dignity,and self-respect,and be a good human being.My darling father-in-law,who is still a very important part of my life,although he left me,many years ago.My grandparents,my wonderful husband,with whom I had twenty five of the very best years of my life.My sons,who have been my strength,guide,mentor,and sounding board,always standing by,always supportive.Their wives,who were a bit taken aback with my unconventional ways,but soon became good friends,and allies.My dearest friends,who form a ring all around me,with their care,compassion,love,thoughtfulness,and help,which is truly a great blessing.But most of all,my darling grandchildren,4 right now,(May2009!),who are the loves of my life.My time with them is very precious,so soothing,so comforting,and fun-filled,that life suddenly becomes rainbow coloured,warm,and constantly smiley.God bless them always.So you see,I am very family oriented,it always was,and will always be,my only priority,everything else comes much later.So c'mon ,join me,and lets embark on a journey to celebrate the joy of living with gusto.Bye.Love you.